Homily for the Third Sunday of Lent, March 8. 2026. Gospel of St. John 4:5-42. Theme: We Are the Woman at the Well
Today’s Gospel presents us with the longest recorded one-on-one conversation that Christ had with another person during His public ministry. It opens with Jesus, tired and thirsty, stopping for a rest at a well in Samaria. He encounters a woman who intentionally comes to draw water at noon because she knows that her neighbors will not be there. The women of the village always carried out this laborious task in the cool of the morning or the breeze of the evening but never in the blazing noonday sun. So, why did this woman come at midday when she had good reason to believe none of her neighbors would be there?
Well, to find out we need to do a little bit of ancient detective work. We are told that she had gone through five husbands and we know that in her culture, women had no legal right to choose a spouse or to initiate divorce. So this meant that she was not the instigator of these multiple relationships but rather, was a victim of serial abuse, being repeatedly used and then discarded by a procession of men. Each had their way with her and then just left her behind. This chain of abusive treatment would not only corrupt her self-image, but would also give her a reputation in the village as being “damaged goods”. It surely placed upon her shoulders a burden of false shame and so it’s no wonder that she sought to evade her peers at the well.
But Jesus reaches out to this deeply wounded woman to bring her the good news that there is hope for a better life ahead. And in doing so it moves him to ignore three cultural taboos of Judaism. First, Jews did not have anything to do with Samaritans, who centuries before had broken rank with Israel and formed a new hybrid religion. They were considered traitors who were cursed by God. Second, Jewish men did not speak to strange women in public. Ever. And third, mingling with her was considered spiritual contamination, a kind of guilt by association. In doing these things, Christ was intentionally ignoring deeply embedded cultural prejudice and discrimination, but as we all know, that’s “vintage Jesus”. He was always reaching out to those who were social outcasts, no matter who they were, no matter where they came from, and no matter what they may have done.
As the story unfolds, the woman gradually opens up to Jesus and He, in turn, gradually reveals more of Himself to her. This dynamic interchange shows us that Jesus respects our freedom. He invites but He never forces. He meets us where we are and works with us there, gently encouraging us to go deeper, to have confidence in Him. Notice the various ways the woman addresses Jesus, which reveal that she is undergoing this process of deepening her understanding of who He is. Initially, she calls him “Sir’” as she would address any man. Next, she realizes that He is more than that. He is a devout teacher, perhaps a mystic, and so she calls him a “prophet”. Finally, a light clicks on inside of her as she senses something even more unique about this holy man and ponders if he might be “the Christ”' (which means “the Messiah” in Greek).
But the mystery about who He is deepens as Jesus offers her a ‘Gift of God’ that He calls ‘Living Water’. Now, in their desert culture, “living water” meant fresh running water as opposed to stagnant well water and so she is quite excited to hear about such a treasure! And she gets even more excited when Jesus tells us that she won’t have to labor for this Living Water day after day. She is thinking about earthly things, of course, but Jesus is elevating her thoughts towards heavenly things. He's using Living Water as a metaphor for the Holy Spirit, the Bearer of God’s grace, that He wants to pour into her heart. Just as springs of running water refresh and revive her physically, so the fountain of Living Water will heal and transform her from interiorly. Jesus knows that this is really what she has been thirsting for and truly needs.
The Gospel wants us to see ourselves reflected in this spiritually wounded woman. Like her, we have all been broken by our sins and the sins of others. Like her, many of us may think of ourselves as “damaged goods” and carry on our shoulders a burden of false shame. And so Jesus invites us through this Gospel to come to Him and have our burning thirst for love and acceptance satisfied by the Living Water that He offers us.
The story then reaches its conclusion by showing us how Christ’s Living Water has kicked into action. We now see her as a changed woman who races back to her village filled with excitement over the holy man whom she had met. She now runs back to the village precisely to seek out her neighbors instead of avoiding them. And once there she draws attention to herself by exclaiming, “Come and see a man who told me everything I have done. Could this be the Christ?” What a twist in the story! What a turn of events! What a change of heart! The Living Water of God’s grace has overcome her desire for isolation and begins to heal her social relationships. The once rejected and scorned woman has cast her false shame aside and has now become a bold messenger of God’s love to her peers!
But you know, today’s story isn’t just about this Samaritan Woman. It’s also about us. St. John was inspired by the Holy Spirit to record this event in his Gospel to remind us that we are each that woman at the well. We each need to follow her example by opening up our hearts and lives to Jesus. It’s encouraging us to be like her and not to hide anything about ourselves from Him out of fear of judgment because that’s not how He operates. Instead, when we honestly own up to Him about who we are and what we have done, He responds by giving us a greater outpouring of the Gift of God, the Holy Spirit. And then as He did for that woman, He will drench us with healing streams of Living Water, causing new life to spring up within us, from which will flow abundant faith, confident hope and life-changing love.







