Homily for the 17th Sunday of Ordinary Time, July 27, 2025. Gospel of St. Luke 11:1-13. Theme: The Parable of the Boat
In the time of Jesus, it was expected that a rabbi would give his student-disciples a simple prayer that expressed his approach to God. That’s why St. Luke tells us that John the Baptist gave his followers a prayer and it’s precisely why Jesus’ disciples asked him to do the same for them. And so as a result, we received the Lord’s Prayer from the lips of the Son of God Himself. But what I would like to focus on is the remainder of today’s Gospel in which Jesus gives a teaching on prayer. He reminds us that God is a good Father who hears us and answers in the way He knows best. Christ encourages us to persevere in our praying and to not lose heart even when it seems as if we are not being heard.
And this is what can be so challenging for us when it comes to intercessory prayer.
I mean, who among us hasn’t prayed for someone repeatedly and intensely, perhaps even for many years, and yet hasn’t seen any sign of having been heard? Maybe we’re interceding for someone who has drifted from the faith or from the family. Or perhaps we’ve been praying for the healing of a strained relationship or for a loved one who is trapped in the bonds of addiction? And as we pray we keep looking for any indication that our prayers have an impact. But often nothing seems to have changed. Sometimes we might feel like we should just give up and move on. We may even be tempted to doubt Jesus' words that “everyone who asks, receives; and the one who seeks, finds; and the one who knocks, will have the door opened to them.” (Luke 11:10)
But at times like that what helps me to keep on keeping on in my intercession for others is a lesson that I learned from a story called the Parable of the Boat. I don't remember where I first heard it or read it, because it was a long time ago. And quite honestly I don’t even recall enough to repeat the whole story to you in detail. But I have never forgotten what it teaches and that’s the whole point of a parable anyway. Now, in this story a boat is the symbol for the person for whom we are praying. And the waves of water symbolize our prayers and God’s grace.
The parable starts off by telling us that there was a boat that looked just fine to the eye and seemed to be very sea-worthy. But appearances can be deceiving and in actuality it had little cracks and tiny fissures in its hull that were caused by years of neglect. And so, whether it was docked in the harbor or out at sea, wave after wave would continually splash up against it and water slowly made its way into those tiny cracks and unseen fissures. Over time this continual slapping movement of the waves enlarged the crevices enough to allow water to slowly begin to seep into the interior, putting it in danger of sinking. Finally, the day came when the owner could no longer ignore its poor condition. He had to repair his boat if he wanted to preserve it.
Now, what does this parable have to do with praying for the ones we love? Well, like that boat, they too may look just fine on the outside and their lives might seem great and even successful. But in reality they have unseen cracks in the heart and spiritual fissures in the soul that are the inevitable result of years of neglecting their relationship with God. And our persistent prayers for them are like those never-ending ripples and waves of water. They continually slap against the boat of their lives, so to speak, and weaken their resistance, allowing God’s grace to find its way in. And so this is precisely why we keep on asking, why we keep on seeking and why we keep on knocking. We want to keep that spiritual water splashing against them, confident that it’s only a matter of time until it penetrates to the heart and they realize that they need to repair the boat of their lives.
There are countless real life stories that show the truth of this parable. But perhaps the most classic of them all is that of St. Monica, Her pagan husband forbade infant baptism for their 3 children, so Monica did the best she could to share her faith in Jesus with them. Two became Christian, but the oldest boy, Augustine, would have nothing to do with it! He grew into a very handsome, extremely brilliant and terribly arrogant young man. Throughout his 20’s he belonged to an esoteric cult, lived with his long-time girlfriend and had a son. He ignored his mother’s continual pleas for conversion and wanted to hear no more from her about being baptized. St. Ambrose, who was Monica’s bishop, told her to cease and desist with nagging her son! It was ineffective and simply kept backfiring. Instead, he advised her to double down on her prayers and to be assured that a child of her many tears would not be lost.
And so, St. Monica followed this advice and persevered in prayer. Even though she saw no signs of change for many more years to come, she refused to give up. Through all that time she kept splashing the spiritual waters against the boat of Augustine’s heart, confident that they would find the cracks and grace would begin to seep in. Ultimately her petition was visibly granted and she received so much more than she had ever hoped for or imagined. When Augustine was in his early 30’s, he not only joyfully received Baptism, but went on to become a holy bishop and theologian whose writings still strongly influence Christianity today. As a matter of fact, our Holy Father Pope Leo, calls himself a “spiritual son of St. Augustine” and he looks to him as a model and inspiration.
And so I hope that the Parable of the Boat and the example of Sts. Monica and Augustine will encourage us to embrace Jesus’ teaching to keep on praying and not lose heart. God has the time and circumstances of our loved one’s conversion already in mind. So, all we have to do is what St. Monica did…keep on asking…keep on seeking…and keep on knocking on the door of Heaven… confident that the waters of our prayer will eventually push their way through the cracks in the boat of our loved ones’ lives and flood their hearts with God’s life-saving and life-changing grace.